How a Hawk Clarifies Love and Loss, Beauty and Terror, Control and Surrender
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After her father’s sudden and soul-splitting death, Macdonald, a
seasoned falconer, decides to wade through the devastation by learning
to train a goshawk — the fiercest of raptors, “things of death and
difficulty: spooky, pale-eyed psychopaths,” capable of inflicting
absolute gore with absolute grace. Over the course of that trying
experience — which she chronicles by weaving together personal memory,
natural history (the memory of our planet), and literary history (the
memory of our culture) — she learns about love and loss, beauty and
terror, control and surrender, and the myriad other dualities
reconciling which is the game of life.
Macdonald writes:
Here’s a word. Bereavement. Or, Bereaved. Bereft. It’s from the Old English bereafian,
meaning ‘to deprive of, take away, seize, rob.’ Robbed. Seized. It
happens to everyone. But you feel it alone. Shocking loss isn’t to be
shared, no matter how hard you try.
Out of that aloneness a singular and paradoxical madness is born:
I knew I wasn’t mad mad because I’d seen people
in the grip of psychosis before, and that was madness as obvious as the
taste of blood in the mouth. The kind of madness I had was different. It
was quiet, and very, very dangerous. It was a madness designed to keep
me sane. My mind struggled to build across the gap, make a new and
inhabitable world… Time didn’t run forwards any more. It was a solid
thing you could press yourself against and feel it push back; a thick
fluid, half-air, half-glass, that flowed both ways and sent ripples of
recollection forwards and new events backwards so that new things I
encountered, then, seemed souvenirs from the distant past.
Rippling through Macdonald’s fluid, mesmerizingly immersive prose are
piercing, short, perfectly placed deliverances, in both senses of the
word: there is the dark (“What happens to the mind after bereavement makes no sense until later.”), the luminous (“I’d halfway forgotten how kind and warm the world could be.”), the immediate (“Time passed. The wavelength of the light around me shortened. The day built itself.”), the timeless (“Those old ghostly intuitions that have tied sinew and soul together for millennia.”), and the irrepressibly sublime (“Looking for goshawks is like looking for grace: it comes, but not often, and you don’t get to say when or how.”).
Choosing a goshawk, a creature notoriously difficult to tame, became
Macdonald’s way of learning to let grace come unbidden, a letting that
demanded a letting go — of compulsive problem-solving, of the various
control strategies by which we try to bend life to our will, of the
countless self-contortion and self-flagellation techniques driving the
machinery of our striving. Recounts the frustration of failing to get
her goshawk, Mabel, to obey her commands — frustration familiar to
anyone who has ever anguished by any form of unrequited intentionality —
Macdonald writes:
I flew her later in the day. I flew her earlier. I fed
her rabbit with fur and rabbit without. I fed her chicks that I’d gutted
and skinned and rinsed in water. I reduced her weight. I raised it. I
reduced it again. I wore different clothes. I tried everything to fix
the problem, certain that the problem couldn’t be fixed because the
problem was me. Sometimes she flew straight to my fist, sometimes
straight over it, and there was no way of knowing which it would be.
Every flight was a monstrous game of chance, a coin-toss, and what was
at stake felt something very like my soul. I began to think that what
made the hawk flinch from me was the same thing that had driven away the
man I’d fallen for after my father’s death. Think that there was
something deeply wrong about me, something vile that only he and the
hawk could see.
Macdonald peers directly into the black hole of fury, a familiar rage directed as much at the rebuffer as at the rebuffed self:
The anger was vast and it came out of nowhere. It was the
rage of something not fitting; the frustration of trying to put
something in a box that is slightly too small. You try moving the shape
around in the hope that some angle will make it fit in the box. Slowly
comes an apprehension that this might not, after all, be possible. And
finally you know it won’t fit, know there is no way it can fit, but this
doesn’t stop you using brute force to try to crush it in, punishing the
bloody thing for not fitting properly. That was what it was like: but I
was the box, I was the thing that didn’t fit, and I was the person
smashing it, over and over again, with bruised and bleeding hands.
And yet somehow, Macdonald unboxes herself as she trains Mabel into
control and Mabel trains her into the grace of surrender, of resting
into life exactly as it is rather than striving for some continually
unsatisfying and anguishing version of how it ought to be. She captures
this beautifully in the closing vignette — an earthquake, quite an
uncommon occurrence in England, rattles her house and sends her
panic-stricken into Mabel’s quarters, terrified at the thought that
earthquakes alarm wildlife and often cause animals to flee. Macdonald
writes:
I race downstairs, three steps at a time, burst through
the door and turn on the light in her room. She is asleep. She wakes,
pulls her head from her mantle-feathers and looks at me with clear eyes.
She’s surprised to see me. She yawns, showing her pink mouth like a
cat’s and its arrowhead tongue with its black tip. Her creamy underparts
are draped right down over her feet, so only one lemony toe and one
carbon-black talon are exposed. Her other foot is drawn high up at her
chest. She felt the tremors. And then she went back to sleep, entirely
unmoved by the moving earth. The quake brought no panic, no fear, no
sense of wrongness to her at all. She’s at home in the world. She’s
here. She ducks her head upside down, pleased to see me, shakes her
feathers into a fluffy mop of contentment, and then, as I sit with her,
she slowly closes her eyes, tucks her head back into her feathers, and
sleeps. She is not a duke, a cardinal, a hieroglyph or a mythological
beast, but right now Mabel is more than a hawk. She feels like a
protecting spirit. My little household god. Some things happen only
once, twice in a lifetime. The world is full of signs and wonders that
come, and go, and if you are lucky you might be alive to see them. I had
thought the world was ending, but my hawk had saved me again, and all
the terror was gone.
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