Sunday, December 4, 2011

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Saturday, December 3, 2011



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The natural way of being after death of a loved one is suffering at first, then there is a deepening.
In that deepening, you go to a place where there is no death. And the fact that you felt that means you
went deep enough, to the place where there is no death. 


Conditioned as your mind is by society, the contemporary world that you live in, which knows nothing about that dimension – your mind then tells you that there is something wrong with this. Your mind says “I should not be feeling peace, that is not what one feels in a situation like this”. But that’s a conditioned thought by the culture that you live in. So instead we can recognize when this happens, when that thought comes – recognize it as a conditioned thought that is not true.

It doesn't mean that the waves of sadness don’t come back from time to time. But in between the waves of sadness, you sense there is peace. As you sense that peace, you sense the essence of your children as well – the timeless essence. So death is a very sacred thing – not just a dreadful thing.
When you react to the loss of form, that’s dreadful.

When you go deep enough to the formless, the dreadful is no longer dreadful, it’s sacred.
Then you will experience the two levels, when somebody dies who is close to you. Yes it’s dreadful on the level of form. It’s sacred on the deeper level. Death can enable you to find that dimension in yourself. You’re helping countless other humans if you find that dimension in yourself – the sacred dimension of life. Death can help you find the sacred dimension of life – where life is indestructible.

Surrender can open that door for you. Complete acceptance of it. So honor that sacred dimension and realize that what your mind is saying, that it isn't right, is just a form of conditioning – it isn’t the truth. It is supremely right.

This is always the window into the formless. As you accept it, surrender. Because the form is gone, your mind becomes still when you surrender to death. It’s not through explanations that you accept death. You can have explanations, mental explanations that say, well, he or she will move on or reincarnate,
or go to some place of rest. 


That can be comforting, but you can go to a deeper place than that, where you don’t need explanations –
a state of immediate realization of the sacredness of death, because what opens up when the form dissolves is
life beyond form. 


That is the only thing that is sacred. That is the sacred dimension.


~ Eckhart Tolle



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Thursday, December 1, 2011


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Sunday, November 20, 2011


curioos-arts:

Dariusz Klimczak (Poland) - Curioos

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Old men ought to be explorers
here or there does not matter

we must be still and still moving
into another intensity
for a further union, a deeper communion
through the dark cold and the empty desolation,
the wave cry, the wind cry, the vast waters
of the petrel and the porpoise.

In my end is my beginning.
 


~ T. S. Eliot
excerpt from East Coker V
Four Quartets



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Four Quartets



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via whiskey river 
image via ELEMENOP


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Saturday, November 19, 2011





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If you want to become whole, let yourself be partial.

If you want to become straight, let yourself be crooked.


If you want to become full, let yourself be empty.


If you want to be reborn, let yourself die.


If you want to be given everything, give everything up.


~ Tao Te Ching


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  Tao Te Ching

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Sunday, November 6, 2011

The Deer



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You never know.
The body of night opens
like a river, it drifts upward like white smoke,

like so many wrappings of mist.
And on the hillside two deer are walking along
just as though this wasn't

the owned, tilled earth of today
but the past.
I did not see them the next day, or the next,

but in my mind's eye -
there they are, in the long grass,
like two sisters.

This is the earnest work. Each of us is given
only so many mornings to do it -
to look around and love

the oily fur of our lives,
the hoof and the grass-stained muzzle.
Days I don't do this

I feel the terror of idleness,
like a red thirst.
Death isn't just an idea.

When we die the body breaks open
like a river;
the old body goes on, climbing the hill.


~ Mary Oliver


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“Here I am trying to live, or rather, I am trying to teach the death within me how to live.”
~Jean Cocteau




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Here I am trying to live, or rather,
I am trying to teach the death within me how to live.

–Jean Cocteau





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Wednesday, October 26, 2011

beautiful


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find the other four clips on the You Tube page


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more gratitude to the beauty we love


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Wednesday, October 5, 2011

nirvana


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Friday, September 2, 2011

I Ask Percy How I Should Live My Life




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Love, love, love, says Percy.

And hurry as fast as you can
along the shining beach, or the rubble, or the dust.
 
Then, go to sleep.
 
Give up your body heat, your beating heart.
 
Then, trust.


~ Mary Oliver

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thank you, wait - what?


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Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Seeing For You



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The leaves left at the tops of trees
sound like rain in the wind. November—
the sparrows play at being leaves,
the leaves at being birds.

I play at seeing for you
now that you play at being gone.


 ~ Linda Allardt


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image via datura 


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Wednesday, August 17, 2011

Thursday, August 4, 2011

forget it

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now, listen, when I die I don't want any crying, just get the
disposal under way, I've had a full some life, and
if anybody has had an edge, I've
had it, I've lived 7 or 8 lives in one, enough for
anybody.
we are all, finally, the same, so no speeches, please,
unless you want to say he played the horses and was very
good at that.

you're next and I already know something you don't,
maybe.
 

confession

waiting for death
like a cat
that will jump on the
bed

I am so very sorry for
my wife

she will see this
stiff
white
body
shake it once, then
maybe
again

"Hank!"

Hank won't
answer.

it's not my death that
worries me, it's my wife
left with this
pile of
nothing.

I want to
let her know
though
that all the nights
sleeping
beside her
even the useless
arguments
were things
ever splendid

and the hard
words
I ever feared to
say
can now be
said:

I love
you.


~ Charles Bukowski


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Tuesday, August 2, 2011

truly



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In your clay body, things are coming to expression and to light
that were never known before, presences that never came to
light or shape in any other individual.  

To paraphrase Heidegger, who said, "Man is a shepherd of being,"  
we could say, "Man is a shepherd of clay."

You represent an unknown world that begs you to bring it to voice. 
Often the joy you feel does not belong to your individual biography
but to the clay out of which you are formed.

At other times, you will find sorrow moving through you,
like a dark mist over a landscape.  
This sorrow is dark enough to paralyze you. 

It is a mistake to interfere with this movement of feeling. 
It is more appropriate to recognize that this emotion belongs more
to your clay than to your mind.

It is wise to let this weather of feeling pass;
it is on its way elsewhere.

Regardless of how modern we seem, we still remain ancient,
sisters and brothers of the one clay.

In each of us a different part of the mystery becomes luminous.
 To truly be and become yourself, 
you need the ancient radiance of others.

~ John O'Donohue
(© John O'Donohue. All rights reserved.)

for more: johnodonohue.com

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Friday, July 29, 2011

Kindness

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Before you know what kindness really is
you must lose things,
feel the future dissolve in a moment
like salt in a weakened broth.
 

What you held in your hand,
what you counted and carefully saved,
all this must go so you know
how desolate the landscape can be
between the regions of kindness.
 

How you ride and ride
thinking the bus will never stop,
the passengers eating maize and chicken
will stare out the window forever.


Before you learn the tender gravity of kindness,
you must travel where the Indian in a white poncho
lies dead by the side of the road.
 

You must see how this could be you,
how he too was someone
who journeyed through the night with plans
and the simple breath that kept him alive.


Before you know kindness as the deepest thing inside,
you must know sorrow as the other deepest thing.
 

You must wake up with sorrow.
 

You must speak to it till your voice
catches the thread of all sorrows
and you see the size of the cloth.


Then it is only kindness that makes sense anymore,
only kindness that ties your shoes
and sends you out into the day to mail letters and
purchase bread,
only kindness that raises its head
from the crowd of the world to say
it is I you have been looking for,
and then goes with you every where
like a shadow or a friend.



~ Naomi Shihab Nye


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The Day My Son Died


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The doctor came to tell us that he had died I thought it was just for that day, so I went to bed early and slept well.
But the next morning I heard them talking downstairs; apparently he had still died (even though the doctor wasn’t calling to tell us today).
So it’s gonna be a few days, I figured; we might as well have a funeral. We drove hundreds of miles in dozens of cars finding and losing the way ‘round and ‘round standing ‘round and ‘round, crying, listening, crying listening standing and standing around.
But when it was over he had still died so there was nothing to do but drive home. It took hours and then the refrigerator had broken down. We soon fixed it but he had still died.
And every night after that I slept as long as I could to give him a chance to not have died.
But in the morning they were always downstairs and when I asked if he had still died the answer was always, "Yes."
And so it went into a week and then it went into two weeks. Eventually it went into months.
And it kept going.
It wouldn’t stop.
It kept on having happened.
No matter what I did, it refused to not have happened.
Even if I wrote in my diary about it
Even if I wrote a poem about it
Even if I forgot about it,
IT didn’t forget about it.
Not for a second was it caught off guard.
It was as stubborn as the music of the spheres.
It just wouldn’t let bygones be bygones.
To this day it has happened.
It insists on having happened.
It will never tire of having happened.
Nothing will distract it from having happened.
It was more than one day. It was more than one week.
It was more than months. It was more than years.
And it knew it – ALL the time                 

~ Marion Cohen

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Friday, June 17, 2011



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I had seen birth and death

but had thought they were different.



–T. S. Eliot








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Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Roses, Later Summer




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What happens
to the leaves after
they turn red and golden and fall
away? What happens
to the singing birds
when they can't sing
any longer? What happens
to their quick wings?

Do you think there is any
personal heaven
for any of us?
Do you think anyone,
the other side of that darkness,
will call to us, meaning us?

Beyond the trees
the foxes keep teaching their children
to live in the valley.
So they never seem to vanish, they are always there
in the blossom of light
that stands up every morning
in the dark sky.

And over one more set of hills,
along the sea,
the last roses have opened their factories of sweetness
and are giving it back to the world.

If I had another life
I would want to spend it all on some
unstinting happiness.

I would be a fox, or a tree
full of waving branches.
I wouldn't mind being a rose
in a field full of roses.

Fear has not yet occurred to them, nor ambition.
Reason they have not yet thought of.
Neither do they ask how long they must be roses, and then what.
Or any other foolish question.


~ Mary Oliver

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Wednesday, February 16, 2011

Intro to Yale Course on the nature of Death (Philosophy)

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Metaphysics, values and the nature of death ...

 Many of these lectures are to be found in the sidebar here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p2J7wSuFRl8&feature=related





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